Programs
Assertiveness

Speak Up

Building assertiveness with CBT

Six weeks to give your needs a seat

6 weeks·23 sessions·10–15 min a day·Built with clinicians
Who it’s for

For anyone who replays the sentence they didn't say, ends up everyone's default yes, carries quiet resentment about needs never voiced, and calls it 'keeping the peace' while the tab quietly runs.

What’s inside

The first 4 sessions are free. Unlock the rest whenever you’re ready.

Begin
Understand the Styles
The Formula
05Situation, feeling, need, request13 min
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06Delivery12 min
07First field reps13 min
08Weekly review6 min
The No
09No, as a complete sentence13 min
10The broken record12 min
11The favor audit12 min
12Weekly review6 min
The Predictions
13The catastrophe forecast13 min
14The gap, read12 min
15Resentment accounting12 min
16Weekly review6 min
The Harder Rooms
17Upward assertion13 min
18The family patterns13 min
19Over- and under-shoot repair12 min
20Weekly review6 min
Keep the Seat
21Reading your progress13 min
22The backslide drill12 min
23Your personal plan12 min
Why this works

Assertiveness isn't becoming louder or harder — it's the radical idea that your needs get a seat at the table you're already sitting at. This program builds the sentence, then the nerve, then the habit: the four-part formula, a no that stands on its own, your predictions of rupture put on trial against what actually happens, and a graded ladder back into every room you've been swallowing in. Ten to fifteen minutes a day, scored by your own log.

Your answers are encrypted and never sold. No ads. If you’re in crisis, this program isn’t the right help — local emergency services are.

Also available in Untangle — one purchase, both places, progress in sync.
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First 4 sessions free · one-time payment · lifetime access